A Nice Way to Learn New Female Dominance Tricks

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For the uninitiated, BDSM (which stands for Bondage, Dominance, Sadism and Masochism) may seem a quirky, perverted and wrong-headed view of life and of love. In point of fact, many may erroneously believe that it is a lifestyle choice for people of ill-repute or those who enjoy abusing others (or who enjoy being abused). This couldn’t be further from the truth, and is an unfortunate point of view fostered by fear and ignorance.

Paring it down, BDSM comes in two forms – the variety for lifestyle appreciators, and those who prefer the kink or fetish aspect of it. What does this mean? In lifestyle BDSM, two people agree to consensually bring the Dominant/submissive (D/s) dynamic into their relationship on a permanent basis. Sexual pleasure does enter into it on occasion, but it is not the main focus of BDSM lived as a lifestyle. Conversely, kink or fetish BDSM only brings it out at certain times and specifically for sexual gratification to both parties.

Neither is more important or more highly valued than the other. Both forms have pros and cons to consider, and simply put, one may not be for you. Despite what some may think, choice is a huge part of this. There is no abuse, no subjugation, nothing that occurs without the willingly given permission of both parties. In point of fact, there are more than a few people who ‘evolve’ in their preferences, going from utilizing BDSM in the bedroom, to living it 24/7.

Practitioners of BDSM are no more amoral or bad than any other person, and the notion that people who prefer it were somehow mistreated or abused as children is groundless. It ‘is’ possible, just as it is possible for a blind man to be a doctor, or a deaf man to play music or for men to sew a dress or women to shoot a gun, but emotional health and happiness are two of the most important things in a thriving BDSM relationship. While it is true that what the Dom/me says goes, and it is the submissive’s place to please the Dom/me in all things, choice and trust are of the highest importance

The best advantage of availing the femdom options is that it will help your partner learn all the tricks and echniques, which are very necessary, for efficient woman dominated sex. In the femdom videos and movies, not only they can learn the way of torturing you while making the whole process of pain, quite pleasurable to you. Watching these femdom options together can also make you aware about the way, in which you have to respond to your partner.

There are a few ways you can introduce femdom to your male partner, and the ost common of them is simply talking about it. Perhaps over a nice candle-lit dinner; a romantic setting already puts forth the desire of more to come. When your partner comes home to find you have prepared a nice romantic evening, a conversation revolving around desires will already come into play.

Here you can watch some BDSM prank

BDSM – Goals and Motivation For Training A Slave

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When looking to get involved in the BDSM lifestyle you must understand at least basic goals and motivation. Just as with any position you might be hiring for, you need to learn how to create goals in order to mold them into your ideal slave and partner. When training a slave the question of how to motivate a slave is one that many dominants struggle with, but there are a number of basic things you can do to get the process started.

Many dominants want to believe that their power over a slave is all encompassing and that they merely have to say something in order to make it happen. If only this were the case. While there are some willing slaves that are able to follow orders and are happy to follow any orders you give them, most slave and master relationships do start off with a lot of miscommunication and frustration – especially when the ideas of goals and motivations aren’t addressed from the start of training a slave.

Even a dominant partner needs to learn what will work best for their slave training. Because all slaves will have their own set of needs and personalities, you need to be ready to formulate a plan of training that incorporates the goals that you want your slave to achieve in order to satisfy your needs. And you also need to figure out what kinds of motivation will allow your slave to want to reach these goals in an efficient manner.

The goals that you set are as individual when training a slave are between you and your submissive. What you might consider to be an important goal may not be something that is important to another Dom/me – but that’s not something you need to worry about. Your goals are going to begin with determining what you need from your slave on a regular basis. Is your slave going to be someone that is simply a service slave or perhaps a sexual slave? By defining their role in your life, you will be able to create clear goals they need to achieve in order to satisfy you.

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For example when training a slave you might want to create a list of the things you expect your slave to do for you. They might be able to read this list ahead of time in order to know what will be expected of them in your relationship and also to give their opinion about anything that is not reasonable to them or unrealistic for them at this time. This initial agreement stage will happen before you open up the dungeon, so to speak.

Once these goals are established, you will then need to determine what will make a slave listen to your instructions – it can vary greatly from one slave to another. For example when training a slave some submissives respond to punishments, while others look forward to punishments and that doesn’t motivate them to complete the tasks as directed. If disobeying gets them what they want, then they will simply continue to do so.

Top BDSM movies

I found a video in youtube that presents the top 10 BDSM movies.  You will find movies that you never herd of and are in the top 10.  Enjoy the video. You might find some ideas for your bedroom.

I think this video left one of the greatest BDSM movies ever – Fifty Shades of Grey. The movie had unparalleled success which led to sequal entitled Fifty Shades Darker. Movie is due to be released in 2017 and it is an eagerly awaited. The producers promise to surpass you wildest expectations. While there is no news about the movie cast there are some rumours. We will wait and see if this movie will live to the expectation of the  audience.